I spoke about a pattern, so let me give you a few more examples. Several times we have hoped to see the Northern Lights and bundled up to brave the evening chill while searching outside for a good place to spot them. Finally, this week we did see a bit of a show, although with the greater light pollution here in Mora, the lights were less impressive than they might have been otherwise. But each time we go out at night to look for the lights, I have been awed by the starry night sky itself. When I look up at the constellations in Sweden, they are so much brighter than I have ever seen them, even in the summers in northern MN. I find myself wishing I had actually paid more attention when learning about them so that I could remember more than just the Big Dipper, Orion, and Cassiopeia. Especially since I have grown up in the suburbs of Chicago, where discerning any constellation in the night sky is a treat, observing the stars here in Sweden is absolutely breathtaking for me each time.
There are many other instances of finding beauty when I have been looking for something else, and sometimes this comes in the form of simply seeing how all the members of the group adapt so smoothly to unexpected situations or disappointments. I still remember the day during the Jokkmokk Marknad that Sonja and I stood in line for almost two hours in the bitter cold to get tickets to the Sami dance that evening, only to have the people a few paces in front of us buy the last ones. And this was pretty frustrating, but Sonja and I bought some ice cream to eat with a movie, and by that evening, we felt that ice cream and a movie were exactly what we were in the mood for anyway. And we still had an enjoyable evening with those people who did go to the dance when they came back later on. One of the things I love most about this group is the way that everyone can have a fun and rewarding experience, even when certain things don't go our way. As they say, with every door that closes, another opens, and that is more true with this group than any of us could have hoped to expect. Okay, that's enough of my sappy musings for today. You can't say I didn't warn you. :-)
3 comments:
How could this semester not be a success with people like you and all the others in the group. It takes resilience, patience, openness, creativity and kindness to function well as a team, qualities you all seem to have in abundance.
Ditt glas är alltid halvfullt!
Hey - I don't think you sounded mushy and cliched. Your post is a good reminder to relish what IS, rather than bemoaning what is not. Isn't that what mindfulness is all about?
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